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General thoughts and feelings about whats happening in the world of mellowburn yoga - mainly drivel but if you'd like to read it, I like you reading it :)

By mellowburnyoga, Jan 29 2020 02:16PM

In our culture it’s about more more more. More money, more experiences, more holidays, more clothes, more jewellery more stuff. We put the stuff in our houses and we want bigger houses and bigger cars to put in the drive way. Of course we have to work harder to make all this happen!

In the UK we work some of the longest hours across Europe and typically take less time off. We are on demand 24/7 and lack of productivity equals cultural shame. But this constant list of ‘doing’ comes at a price. Our emotional needs are pushed aside and life becomes more overwhelming.

This has begun to affect our mental health. Anti-anxiety and anti-depression drugs have sky rocketed by 450% since the late 1990s - interestingly around the same time that technology began to take over our lives.


We Need to Restore Balance. But How?


Stress is a killer. It affects numerous things from mental health, fertility in both genders, it increases inflammation (which is linked to things like skin conditions, asthma, heart disease and arthritis). It affects immunity and blood pressure. So we need to reduce stress as much as possible.

Recognising that healing is often an inside job is the key to changing. Addressing our lifestyle choices to include things like Yoga, meditation and mindfulness is a wonderful way to improve mental health. Trends in veganism, holistic medicine, immersing in nature are also all on the rise, showing a real desire to slow down, find head space and de-stress.


Why Does meditation Work?


When we relax in a meditation practice, we are switching off the stress hormone and giving our bodies a chance to heal naturally. The heart rates slows and we shift gears into a space of calm and being, rather than chaos and doing. We gift ourselves the time to process physically and mentally.

Being calm is a super power. And I don’t say that lightly. Recognising how our own thought patterns are directly related to our stress levels and consequently the physical effects on our bodies is transformative. Learning how to train your mind can be the difference between a healthy existence and a non-healthy existence. Your experiences are a mirror of who you are and where you’re at. If you can choose to be calm, your entire life experience will be different.


So HOW Do You Meditate?


In it's most basic form, meditation is sitting or laying quietly and still and letting go of your physical body and of doing so that you can explore the mind and beyond. Meditation isn’t about switching off the mind. The mind thinks because that’s what it’s designed to do! Meditation is a process of relaxing the physical body, acknowledging and then distancing yourself from sensations you feel. Once in that place, you simply bear witness to what is actually going on inside your head. Like a bystander, you watch what’s happening without getting involved.

This can be a lot harder than you think. Despite what ends up happening, you’re not going to sleep, you’re not hypnotised. You’re being.

You are fully aware, but in a completely calm, undisturbed place of peace. The mind will still fluctuate, but with practice, the thoughts become less commanding and further apart.

The experiences you have can and will vary enormously almost every time. Your mind will do anything to distract you! A huge range of feelings from restlessness, boredom, contentment, bliss are all completely normal. Meditation is a journey into the self, beneath the mind and the thoughts.


Here are some basic meditation techniques. I recommend you set a gentle alarm to go off for the desired amount of time (remember begin with just 2 or 3 minutes) so you don’t have to think about when it’s ending.


The Body Scan


For a basic meditation, begin by laying down on the floor in a quiet warm space where you are alone. From the crown of your head, slowly begin a mental walk down, relaxing any tension as you find it from your face, neck, shoulders, chest, back, limbs and extremities (fingers and toes). You’ll be surprised at how much thought is connected to held tension in the body and once you’ve done one cycle, it’s recommended that you begin again. Surrender to the floor and continue allowing your body to soften.


Chanting


The good news is you can be tone deaf and still chant! Mantras (meaning ‘mind vehicle’) are an effective way of finding physical and mental release. There are plenty of Sanskrit ones to choose from like the universal seed sound Om (remember to pronounce this like Auuuum) or Ong Namo Guru Dev Namo (I bow to the teacher within) or Sat nam (elongate the ‘a’ in sat) meaning true identity.


VIsualisation


This is one of the easiest ways to meditate. You can play some super soft instrumental music if you like. As you lay back and relax with your eyes closed, you can imagine in your minds eye a place where you feel most serene. A soothing lake or waterfall, a lush tropical beach, a moonlit meadow… literally there are no limitations. Visualise colours and senses of where you have gone to, what it feels like to be there, how it sounds, what it smells like even. Allow yourself to fully immerse into the meditation.


Like with anything, it takes patience and practice and quite often you’ll feel as if you’re not getting anywhere. It take immense concentration and discipline to keep returning to your focus again and again. Try to remember that every time you realise you’ve become distracted, you simply draw your awareness to your breath, your body and your mind. No judgement, no expectations. Be prepared to begin again, however many times it takes. That is the practice of meditation.


Why not come to a yoga class and learn how to meditate and do yoga with Mellowburn Yoga classes in Guildford and Woking. Mellowburn yoga public classes are:


Tuesdays, 7pm

Yoga for all abilities

Winston Churchill Sports Centre,

Hermitage Road

Woking


Thursdays 6.45pm

Gentle & Simple Yoga

Stoughton Methodist Church Hall,

Stoughton Road

Guildford


Thursdays 8pm

VInyasa Flow Yoga & Yoga Conditioning

Stoughton Methodist Church Hall

Stoughton Road

Guildford


By mellowburnyoga, Oct 26 2016 09:19PM

Ok so can someone tell me who took 2016? I mean seriously? Nearly November!? The world whizzes by and the wise words of my 98 year old granny ring true; the older you get, the faster it goes!


So Mellowburn... Since I last wrote there have been servings of Om Yoga Magazine October edition, Lululemon Athletica Guest Teacher, Guildford Highstreet Aveda Promo class and a brand new timetable including a regular vinyasa flow class at the wonderful Cafe Mila in Godalming and the joyful Akram Hot Yoga Studio in Woking... I have two exciting workshops coming up; Connective Couples and Complete Beginners in January... There are literally classes of all kinds coming out of my brain and my mouth onto the mat, themes from 'Acceptance' to the 'Twists and the SI joint' to 'Stress Reduction Endocrine Focus Restorative', 'Core Flow' ....

There also a new up and coming Seated Yoga class coming up as from next week.... The creative juices are joyfully flowing and I love it...A fulfilling timetable allows me to truly spread the net of yoga joy fast and far and my encounters with the loveliest of humans really is what keeps me buoyant in this flaky yoga world. There have been a few powerful moments lately witnessing people being so able to connect into themselves they've been able to really release onto their mats and express emotion that has been pent up within them and finally comes tumbling out in a positive release. I like that; its powerful and wonderful and humbling as a teacher.


It's true that yoga seems to attract a particular type of person; the ones that want inner peace are usually seeking a nice community from which to enjoy that, those that want to improve their health show compassion for themselves (Karuna) and their wish to feel better shines a light on their wish to make others feel better too. Yoga resonates with so many because it simply tunes you into the inner part of you that is perfect and whole. That untouched, pure part of you that resonates good and reminds us of who we really are. When you connect into that a lot, just by stopping, by breathing, by noticing, you can't help but want more of that and ultimately want to be a better version of yourself.


Autumn often brings about time for reflection and to be honest theres been a lot of that - I notice some folks craving the more advanced asanas (poses) and making their practice all about that; people believing thats what yoga is; makes me think how can I illuminate the other side to yoga? I'm not talking about suddenly studying the hindu scriptures here; but I am talking about the philosophy that underlines why we practice. Finding our truth; understanding our purpose; finding contentment through acceptance - this is what yoga in the west means... and building confidence to know that and to remain clear in that message, in a world where there are so many distractions. There are many ways of bringing the beauty of yogic philosophy in a practical sense to our yoga mats, in the hope that it reflects back into our normal every day worlds.


So yes, a bit of a philosophical one from me this blog and as always another learning journey... its a wonderful ride :)


See you matside Yogis

By mellowburnyoga, Sep 26 2016 11:07AM

Join my NEW weekly class at the beautiful studio above Cafe Mila, Godalming!


Feel invigorated and inspired in this uplifting and accessible vinyasa flow class.


Finding the fire and determination within, as we seek out the balance between effort and surrender, awareness and inner peace, strength and flexibility. Lots of direction and pointers given whilst in the pose to help you to improve and understand your practice.


A typical class will start with a steady and gradual warm up, followed by a fluid and creative flow of transitions between poses that focus on increasing your strength and flexibility. Once the fire has been stoked, we move playfully forward into trying arm balances, inversions and uplifting heart-openers, finishing off by a descent back down into some deep stretching and meditation in delicious and most welcome savasana.


Yoga Mila class pass or £14 drop-in

To book in, click here!

https://clients.mindbodyonline.com/classic/home?studioid=172851





By mellowburnyoga, Sep 23 2016 07:23PM

Join Mellowburn yoga for a date night with a difference! A truly bonding experience that will reconnect and realign you with your partner.

Tune into each others energy and breath and spend time exploring simple, accessible yoga poses, specifically designed to bring you closer and really feel each other in a completely new way. No doubt there will be plenty of smiles to share along the way too!

The workshop will cover simple breathing techniques, non-challenging, intimate, nurturing and supportive poses, along with guided connective meditation.

Find real time to stop and appreciate each other whilst enjoying all the loving benefits that yoga has to offer.

Limited spaces, book early to avoid disappointment


£40 per couple


By mellowburnyoga, Apr 27 2016 08:57AM

Are you interested in starting yoga but haven't got a clue? Have you already begun a practice but would like to fill in the gaps? Well here's your remedy :)


A simple, informative and fun workshop covering all the basics you need to start you off in the big wide world of yoga, as well as a few simple poses to take home and practice to treat your body. The workshop will cover a few topics including:


'What is Yoga?'

a brief overview of the history and philosophy behind yoga as well as different styles and what they mean

'Basic Anatomy'

helping you to understand your body and how to place it in poses

'Pranayama'

the whys and hows of breath control

'Asanas'

The poses themselves, broken down into categories or 'families'

'Relaxation techniques'

to help you to get your mind into the right place for your practice but also to apply to your outside life...


You will also receive a sheet of basic poses to practice at home if you choose.


Prior booking is a must and if you would like to secure a space, advance payment is required.The cost of this workshop is £20.


I really hope you can make it along and it will be a real joy to share a bit more about yoga with you!

To book your place please email mellowburn@hotmail.com

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